Skip to main content

Through birthdays and broken bones I'll be the one to watch you grow...


NaBloPoMo February 2015
This month's NaBloPoMo theme is "Make!" Join me for a month of blog posts all about what we make of things! 
**********


{Make Safety Happen}

Nationwide Insurance offered a number of commercials this past Super Bowl Sunday, including this one: 



The spot struck a nerve. It seemed to be the fly in the ointment made of the chicken wings and seven-layer dips we enjoy while we watch the big game. Viewers seemed to feel that it was inappropriate, that it was poor timing, that it was disturbing. Images of terrible things that can happen to a child don't fit in with the pomp and pageantry of Super Bowl Sunday. People questioned the integrity of an insurance company posting such an ad- was it to imply that Nationwide would provide your insurance payout if you were to loose your child in an accident? 

I read so much of the commentary surrounding this spot this morning. It seemed like a good night's sleep helped fuel the vitriol as the spot was declared the worst commercial of the Super Bowl. So, while we're all tossing hats into the ring, here's mine: 

The Super Bowl is a day that offers one of the highest rates of domestic violence, more so than the rest of the year. Knowing that, I kind of feel like the pearl-clutchers who are shocked by the images they saw should know about so many real-life images that happen behind the scenes. Yes, the game is a great time and a ton of fun, but it's darker side is a reality not often spoken about. 

After that commercial, how many people got up to check the back of their television to make sure it's secure? Or double check the cabinet with the cleaning products when they hopped up to grab another beer during a lull in play? 

A few viewers said that the commercial scared their kids. How many of them turned to their child and said "Yes, that is very scary. That's why I ask you to trust me and listen when I ask you not to do something. It's because I love you very much and it's my job to protect you." 

I am not naive enough to think that Nationwide had purely altruistic motives. A spot that expensive needs to have some sort of payback. But I do think that they had a very unique opportunity to speak to millions of people about a very real truth. It was a chance to say something versus sell something. You have to appreciate someone who is willing to take that risk. 

The thought of something happening to your child is the type of thought that tends to be pushed towards the back of your mind, not splashed across the screen on the biggest television event of the year. But is there ever, really, the "right" time to talk about something like this? No. But, perhaps it was time. 

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

My LTYM Experience or How I Accidentally Ended Up On A Stage

The final chapter of my participation in the Listen To Your Mother Show ended with our live performances. I turned 39 on May 3rd and on May 7th, I was on a stage at the beautiful South Orange Performing Arts Center with 12 other souls  (as well as our incredible producers, Sandy, Brooke and Deborah) that handily out-shined the beauty of the space. It all still feels as if it may have been a dream. A very gratifying, emotional dream.

It ended the same way it began, with my worrying about clothes. Before our first rehearsal, I was stressing out knowing that the next morning, I would be meeting a room full of strangers. Not only that, I would be taking a cast picture with these strangers and reading a story of the worst moments of my life. It seemed like too much to be vulnerable about my story and about my precarious self-esteem at the same time.

Despite all of that, I got into my car on a Saturday morning, armed with coffee and the soundtrack to "Hamilton." Clad in the pink a…

Maybe I'm An A-Hole, But I'll Pass On The Pity Date

Do not hate me for this one, guys.

It would seem that "Prom-posals" are the new thing. It's when one teen asks another to prom, but makes it an event. Balloon bouquets, flash-mobs, celeb cameos, flower arrangements- some of these put my actual marriage proposal to shame, much less my awkward heywannagotoprom conversation I had with the guy I was dating my senior year.

It just occurred to me that I should dig up one of my prom pictures. {shudder}

Anyway, back to proms. These extravagant invites have become the stuff of YouTube videos everywhere and, even thought I think the way these have become over-the-top is kind of insane, I'm totally along for the ride. Roses in math class? A flock of minstrels from the glee club to serenade a prom hopeful? I will watch the shit out of that. I think the romanticism is sweet.

At some point, I start to think about PJ as a prom-goer. Right now, while he's in kindergarten, it's hard to know if that's in the cards for him.…

There's still much to learn, so many dreams to earn...

{...stream of consciousness}

Today is April 2nd, World Autism Awareness Day, and it is Autism Awareness Month.

The month begins on the heels of news from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that Autism is on the rise. 1 in 68 children in the areas followed by the CDC are identified as having an Autism Spectrum Disorder, up from 1 in 88 just a few years ago. In New Jersey, the numbers are far higher then the national average at 1 in 45. 

You can view a summary of the latest CDC report here, but there are two points of the report that stood out to me:
Less than half (44%) of children identified with ASD were evaluated for developmental concerns by the time they were 3 years old.Most children identified with ASD were not diagnosed until after age 4, even though children can be diagnosed as early as age 2.Content source: National Center on Birth Defects and Developmental Disabilities
PJ was diagnosed with Autism shortly after his second birthday. Pete and I had already utilized an e…